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Melissa Raines
  • 28, Female
  • Asheville, NC
  • United States
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Melissa Raines and Belle are now friends
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Well ThanksGiving was not the greatest , first of all it was the first thanksgiving my family did not have my grandmother so to say the least it was an emotional thanksgiving , how ever the worst part was Jeremy's bestfriend of 13yrs betraying Jer...
yesterday
Melissa Raines added a discussion to the group AdHd and Depression
I am extremely worried about my hubby , he's ADHD & OCD , he has struggled with depression most of his life . Just this Thanksgiving hubby's best friend of 13 yrs betray his trust by having his brother break in my & hubby's home and steal our safe...
on Tuesday
Melissa Raines joined Genny's group
Here we can learn about AdHd Depression and learn about our self as well
on Tuesday
I don't really think I would change anything about my ADD , however my husband on the other hand , his ADHD especially his problem with time , procrastination , problems staying on task as well as issue with getting distracted easly ( well i could...
on Monday
I'm so sorry mellisa and jeremy that is so sickening. That really shows what the world is becomming . We can't trust no one . We always have to watch are backs for someone to stab us right in the back. Well you guys take care. sherry
on Sunday
Melissa Raines added a blog post
Well yesterday was ThanksGiving , how ever it wasn't a great one . You see Jeremy has this bestfriend o 10 yrs named ( C) well Jeremy and ( C) have been hanging out alot the last couple of months , well the day before ThanksGiving late that night ...
November 27
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November 22
Watch the dog whisperer - he is the BEST! :)
November 22
Melissa Raines added a blog post
Well It's offically been a week since I got Maggie & so far she's done great , accept for chewing up three pieces of my & Jeremy's window living room blinds after we left her in the house by herself yesterday for about 2 1/2 3 hours ( even tho bef...
November 21
Melissa Raines updated their profile
November 21
Thank you god for blessing me with Maggie , you always know exzactly what I need !!!!
November 20
Melissa, Congratulations! That is wonderful news to hear about your new family member, Maggie! There is nothing quite like the unconditional love of a dog that brings such comfort and joy to one's soul. I have two rescue dogs and several rescue c...
November 20

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About me & Relation to ADHD or other condition?
Hi there!!!! My Name is Melissa , I'm 28 & live in the beautiful mountains of (WNC) where I share a home with my the love of my life Jeremy whom I've been with for 8 yrs. Now being an ADD woman comes with challanges , how ever I just look @ my challanges as god made me different . Now my wonderful other half Jeremy suffers from ADHD him , my Jeremy is a wonderful, sweet, intelligent, honest & loyal man whom I could not imagine my life without him . The fact that I'm ADD & Jeremy is ADHD does make for a challanging relationship in general , but @ the same time we face an even bigger challange fitting into a world that is non ADD/ADHD . How ever even tho we struggle , @ the end of the day we are still together right by each other's side , our love for each other just as strong as the day we met . Jeremy & I both know without a shadow of doubt that god loved us so much that he created Jeremy for me & created me for Jeremy .

Aside from being in a partnership with the love of my life , I am a mother of a wonderful intelligent handsome 8 yr old son named William whom is a blessing from god .

Finally I would like to pay my respects to my beloved grand mother Bonnie ( god rest in peace) She always believed in me, never put me down , she never treated me different just because of my ADD . She thaught me to never let any obstical stand in my way & to never back down from a challange . She taught me that god made me ADD for a reason , just like he made everyone of us different . The biggest thing my grand mother taught me was that to always stand up for what you believe in , pray in everything you do but to also put love into everything you do .
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http://God might not be on time, in our human books but god is alwa...

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Having to dig deep for our blessings!!!.....

Well ThanksGiving was not the greatest , first of all it was the first thanksgiving my family did not have my grandmother so to say the least it was an emotional thanksgiving , how ever the worst part was Jeremy's bestfriend of 13yrs betraying Jeremy's trust by having his brother break into our house and take our safe that contained 4 yrs of savings . I will be honest my weekend was ok but not the greatest , poor Jeremy hasn't been taking this betrayal very well , going from being ragefully angr… Continue

Posted on December 2, 2009 at 8:49pm —

Melissa Raines

why do bad things happen on Holidays?!....

Well yesterday was ThanksGiving , how ever it wasn't a great one . You see Jeremy has this bestfriend o 10 yrs named ( C) well Jeremy and ( C) have been hanging out alot the last couple of months , well the day before ThanksGiving late that night ( C ) said he needed to go to Walmart to get some things , since Jeremy had been nice enough to give him some money to help him out since (C ) is struggling to take care of his wife and kids , well while Jeremy & ( C ) were shopping , (C's) brother… Continue

Posted on November 27, 2009 at 9:39pm — 1 Comment

Melissa Raines

Dogs will be dogs!!!!!!

Well It's offically been a week since I got Maggie & so far she's done great , accept for chewing up three pieces of my & Jeremy's window living room blinds after we left her in the house by herself yesterday for about 2 1/2 3 hours ( even tho before we left I walked her, she pottied and everything plus made sure she had fresh food and water) , now Jeremy I know that we are going to have to crate maggie to train her not chew on stuff , she's already potty trained so she has potentual , s… Continue

Posted on November 21, 2009 at 4:04pm — 2 Comments

Melissa Raines

instead of us finding the dog, the dog found us !!!!

Well after months and months of Jeremy & I looking for a dog, we finally found our litte angel ( or should I say she found us) Apparently a family friend of Jeremy's has had this adorible little black and white female dog roaming arround his house the last couple of days , then on Friday night when Jeremy was hanging out with his friend , his friend introduced him to this little black and white female dog , she immediately took to Jeremy . Jeremy then brought this beautiful little girl home… Continue

Posted on November 15, 2009 at 5:41pm — 3 Comments

Melissa Raines

Im still here....

Hello all , I'm still here !!!! sorry I haven't written in a while , Jeremy & I have been going through some issues , I haven't been sleeping very good lately which is some what due to Jeremy's snoring . The last month or so has been difficult Jeremy & I have had some relationship issues ( which I really don't feel like going to into detail about ) how ever I will say that ever since I gave my son up for adoption almost 6 months ago , I have not been myself , I feel as tho I have lost a… Continue

Posted on November 10, 2009 at 5:08pm —

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At 8:20pm on December 03, 2009, Belle gave Melissa Raines a gift
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At 7:27am on November 23, 2009, sherry mulberry said…
She will be so spoiled by mom and dad . She is so cute and has clothes allready . I will get her something what is her size. they have the cutest shirts at petland.
At 11:27pm on September 13, 2009, Deb Z said…
Thanks Melissa for being my friend. I needed that!
At 6:00pm on September 13, 2009, Deb Z said…
Melissa,
I'm a new comer to this whole ADD thing. I don't think it matters male or female as long as you find what you need! I hope your new therapist is just that!! I am sorry you had such bad experiences as a child and with your previous therapy attempts. I am happy that you can now embracing your ADD and have an understanding of its effects on your thinking. I can only hope to get there someday. Hopefully I will with the help of my therapist and people like you who, even though you are younger in years, have lived with the knowledge of having ADD longer and have plenty of experience to share! Thanks for talking the time to reply. Hopefully, we will talk again :-)
At 6:28pm on September 6, 2009, DANA said…
Hi Melissa!

I am so happy that you and Jeremy got a new home and you have moved in! This is very exciting news! Best wishes to both of you!

Congratulations Pictures, Images and Photos
At 9:04pm on August 31, 2009, Véronique St-Martin said…
Hi Melissa !

Thanks a lot for your elaborate answer ! It will help me, for sure ! Now, I have a last question for you :

What advice(s) could you give to my readers to live well (or better) with ADHD ?

I hope to read you soon !

Regards,
Véronique
At 5:43pm on August 18, 2009, Ms. K said…
Sounds like you are getting on track. Try to remember that if you don't look after yourself you won't be able to help your partner. It is not selfish to put yourself first.

Try not to take too many supplements - I found it hard on my stomach. The thing is, you won't feel the effects of them for about a month of regular use. Good luck!

Kathleen
At 2:45pm on August 17, 2009, Véronique St-Martin said…
Hi !

Thank you for your answer : it helps me a lot !

Now, I have one more question for you :

How did you learn you had ADHD ? In wich circonstances ? In wich ways this diagnosis changed your life ?

I'm waiting your news

Cordially,

Véronique St-Martin
At 8:48pm on August 10, 2009, Véronique St-Martin said…
Hello !

Well... when you say :

"I had no desire to play with normal kid toys . As a teenager , I lacked the ability to keep myself out of social problems or problems with my peers , plus I had some weird friends , with the fact I didn't have many friends to begin with , not to menton the fact that I had problems the oposit sex."

What do you mean, exactly ? What were your toys when you were child ? What kind of social problems did you have with the others and particularly, with the opposite sex ?

I'm hurrying to hear about you !

Regards,

Véronique
At 12:40pm on August 10, 2009, Véronique St-Martin said…
Hi Melissa !

I didn't forget you, as you can see it !

In reading your last message, I noted I had other questions for you, about your past, your life experience.

I just ask you one, for the moment :

What stranges things relied on ADHD did you do when you were young, a child and a teenage, that the others didn't do ?

I hope to read you soon !

Friendly,

Véronique
 
 

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