Ok here it goes just found out im add aprox 6 months ago at age 47. After doing some reaserch alot of it makes sence but my lovely wife seems to think its a cop-out for my behaiver I admit I am hard to get along with and take full resposability for my actions. Im trying to think before I act or say anything whitch I find hard todo usally its after the fact that im like oh hell I did it again. I guess at this point im looking for any advice dont want to end our marriage of 21 years. excuse my spelling my school years were hard now i know why.